If you’ve hung out with the Hicks girls for any length of time, you’ll probably end up hearing about our mango allergy. You only have to say the word, “Mango” and 3 of the 4 of us will suddenly back away from the table, hunting for any speck of the offending food.
It wasn’t always that way. I remember my mom getting mangos from the grocery store and showing us how she used to eat them when she lived in Hawaii — how we would fight over who got to eat the leftover mango that was stuck to the pit and then spending the next hour trying to get the mango fibers out of my teeth. Good times.
And then in college, while we still lived in Oakland, Kristy and I ate mango and then did something where we were out in the sun all day. We ended up with swollen lips and blisters all around our mouths and couldn’t even open our mouths to eat. We spent all week lying on the couch, watching tv, and getting hooked on General Hospital, so it wasn’t all bad.
I blamed it on the combination of the acid and the sunburn and didn’t relate it to the fruit until the next time I ate one and ended up with similar blisters. Maybe it was just the juice on my skin that caused the problem — so a few weeks later I tried eating a few bites using a knife and fork, making sure that the fruit only touched the inside of my mouth. A few hours later I felt the familiar tightness and prickly feeling around my mouth. No more mangos for me.
Thankfully our kids have not had the same problem. They eat them with abandon, just like their dad, always saying kind things like “sorry mom. I wish you could have some.” Except for Caleb, who often orders mango ice cream or mango smoothies so he won’t have to share with me.
And now we live in the land of perfect mangos — displays of the yellow fruit piled high everywhere we go. I steer clear while the kids pick out bags of them to enjoy at home. Then they carefully wash their hands before touching me. But those days look like they may be over.
It started with Calvin and Caleb. I didn’t suspect mango at first, but blamed it on heat rash or sunscreen sensitivities, or just not washing their faces well enough.
Until he woke up this morning with the first tell-tale spots on his face. Welcome to the club.