A girl and her baby

Nana sent a fun surprise today. A doll for Camille. Her first baby. 

They look more like sisters than mommy with baby since they are both bald and chubby.

She also got some fun clothes from Auntie Amy to dress her baby and a baby carrier so she can wear her baby just like mom.

But she should probably learn to walk a little better first. 

Oasis

A few days ago we went on a desert adventure. Josh has this book called Off-Road Oman that has directions and maps to all these places you can visit that aren’t normal tourist spots and many of them require a 4×4 vehicle.

I wasn’t sure that I wanted to 1. Ride in the car for an hour and a half to take a precarious road that the guide described as “a little tricky” 2. sit out in 115 degree heat in the middle of nowhere with a baby. But, since I’m a good sport, (and because Josh bought good snacks) I went along.

On the way there Caleb kept complaining that he wanted to “go to Wadi Shab and go cliff jumping” instead. (that’s where they went last time. If you missed that post, go HERE.) One of the reasons Josh selected this place (it was called Wadi something-or-other) is because it was “family friendly” since we could drive right to the final destination, unlike Wadi Shab where you have to park and hike for a while to reach water.

Once we left the paved road we drove into the wadi (following tire tracks) past thousands of date palms. From a distance we knew there had to be water ahead because you could see a green patch in the middle of the desert from miles away. A wadi is a dry riverbed in the desert. During the rainy season you have to be careful because they flood without warning.

I haven’t figured out why some of the dates are red and others are yellow. Different varieties? Is one tree just slower to ripen than another? I’m too lazy to google the answer . . .

Normal Josh. Sunglasses and coffee. Even while four- wheeling.

Goats! Tons of goats. This village was actually on the edge of the wadi, off the main road. I wonder how often they get trapped by the flooded wadi.

Our destination: these pools of water in the middle of the desert. They didn’t look like much at first, but it ended up being a great spot to relax (for me) and to play (for the kids). We threw down our wadi mat and cracked open the coolers and ate, swam and hiked. Except I didn’t hike. Because of the baby, of course.

We went with our friends, another FAO family because well, we like them, but also because when you drive out into the middle of nowhere to a place that requires 4-wheel drive, it’s stupid to do it by yourself.  More about that later.

There were tons of these tiny little fish. The boys took off their shirts and used them as nets to catch them. They swam and “fished” for hours.

The water was the perfect temperature and depth. There were a few deeper places (maybe chest deep), but baby and I sat in the shallow water up to our necks and kept cool.

The boys all caught frogs. Calvin managed to catch two in one grab.

Patience and stealth: a fisherman at work.

Camille kept trying to drink the water. Yuck. So far she hasn’t developed a nasty bug so either her immune system is strong or much fun awaits. Hoping for the former . . .

After they got tired of playing in the water, the boys decided to climb the mountain. 

They almost made it to the top before they started calling for help to get back down. Dads to the rescue.

Our private oasis. If it were winter we could have brought our tents and camped, but after a few hours I felt plenty cooked and baby was getting tired so we headed home. On the way out our friends drove across a shallow part of the creek that had a hidden drop off and one of their tires went off the ledge and they started to tip over. The kids (Carter was in their car) climbed out the car door that wasn’t in the water and they went running after our car to try and catch us. Unfortunately we were far enough ahead that we didn’t see them and we didn’t have cell phone signal out there so they couldn’t call us to come back. 
We were waiting for them at the start of the paved road and were wondering what was taking so long to catch up when they finally arrived. After they got the car back on dry land and opened the doors, water poured out. They were fortunate that water didn’t get in the engine or they really would have been stuck. Lesson learned. Always use the buddy system and always stay in sight of your buddy — especially when you can’t rely on cell phones. 

travel budget, budget travel

Three days from now, we will be in Turkey (enshalla). Flying from here costs about $575 for each of the three “adults” (yes, Calvin counts as an adult now), the two boys are $475 and Camille’s “ticket” costs $50. She’s a lap baby, but we have to pay the airport taxes for her to fly. I’m writing all this down here because I know from experience that sometime soon I’m going to wonder how much it cost us to travel to Turkey and if I don’t write it down, I’ll forget. And if write it down somewhere else, I’ll never see it again.

Once we finish our week in Istanbul we’ll be flying to the capital city of Ankara to visit friends for a few days. We were going to take an overnight train until we found that the domestic Turkish airlines are really cheap. It’s less than $40/ticket for us to fly, which seems rather crazy in a country where gas costs $11/gallon. I’ll just have to make sure I have my special yellow pills with me since a $40 ticket probably means a tiny, rickety, puddle-jumper of a plane. The reason we were able to get such inexpensive tickets is because Josh booked them using a Turkish website. Yes, in Turkish. When he looked at flights via the US websites they were much more expensive, but he google translated his way to success.

After a few days in Ankara we will rent a car (we figure it will be $100/day, 5 days total) and drive a few hours to Cappadocia. I haven’t figured out gas costs yet — I just know it will be A LOT. If we were complaining about $4/gallon gas in Monterey, how much is it going to hurt when it costs 3 times that much? I can’t even imagine. One of the good things about living overseas is because we’re paying in rials, durham, turkish lira, or the currency of whatever country we happen to be in at the moment, it all feels like play money so it’s less painful handing over a handful of brightly colored “Monopoly” money.

This is the part of the trip I’m most excited about: Cappadocia. It’s in an area of the country that was formed by a volcano so there are tons of caves, ancient cave cities to explore, and our hotel is in a cave (it has windows, so no worries about feeling claustrophobic). We’ll be staying in a family suite that is made up of 4 caves joined together.

From there we drive back to Ankara (expensive) and fly south to the beach city of Antalya (cheap). We were originally going to drive to the coast, but found the same $40 fare so it will cost much less to fly. And, I would assume, be much less painful than a many hour ride in a small European car on country roads.

After a few days at the beach we fly back to Istanbul ($50/ticket) and change planes to fly home. One of the reasons our tickets to and from Turkey are less expensive is because we leave at the crack of dawn and head home in the evening with a middle of the night layover. I wouldn’t normally be ok with that kind of itinerary, but after being evacuated where we spent many hours in many airports, it has to be easier than that.

There have been a few mishaps along the way: a hotel reservation that was accidentally booked for the correct dates, but the wrong month. Thankfully our mistake was caught by the hotel when we emailed them with a question about our arrival and they were able to change our reservation to the correct dates. That could have been disastrous. And last night when Josh was checking on airline baggage restrictions he discovered that the charge for one leg of our trip hadn’t cleared with our bank. It initially showed up as “pending” but then dropped off without actually being paid. He was able to rebook all of us and get a confirmation this time — it just took an hour and wading through lots of Turkish again. Hopefully everything else will come together without a problem.

If you need a weight loss incentive

I saw this in a local magazine today:

Man, those before and after shots are AH-MAZING! Look how much smaller her . . . hmmm. Check out her toned . . .? I guess her eyes could have a more defined shape. Maybe her nose is a little slimmer? Way to show off your weight loss!

My latest project

I finished the blanket I’ve been knitting for Lucy’s new grandson. I started it about a month ago and figured I had until the end of August to finish it, but his early arrival necessitated a quick finish. Of course, since he only weighs 3 lbs, I made it smaller than I would have otherwise since I didn’t want his tiny body getting swallowed up by a huge blanket. We heard from Lucy today. She said the baby is still doing OK, but not gaining any weight. Right now they expect him to be in the hospital for at least another month.  

Notice the Egypt mug? We finally found Oman mugs after looking for them for months. All the Muscat Starbucks got them in at the same time and they were cleared out within a week. In other news, I’ve finished my Christmas shopping. I bet you can’t guess what you’ll be getting from us.

Close up view. I knit it using fifteen different sock yarns (that’s a rough guesstimate) so it’s machine washable and not too heavy. I changed yarns every 4 to 6 rows. The zig zags are made by decreasing and increasing. It looks complicated, but it’s not.  

When I had the camera out taking pictures of the blanket, baby girl was practicing walking all over the living room. She’s getting about 10 steps in before she sits down. Then she pops back up and keeps going. She’s pretty happy with her progress. 
We’ve been really busy packing and finishing up the final plans for our trip. We are going to be gone for 2 1/2 weeks and have been figuring out how to travel as light as possible while still being thoroughly prepared. At least I’m worried about the thoroughly prepared part. As long as Josh has his passport, wallet, ipad and charger, he’ll be happy. Meanwhile I’m trying to figure out how to fit 70 diapers in a small suitcase that is also supposed to hold clothes for me and baby girl for the entire trip. My bedroom looks like something from a travel expo with suitcases laid out in various stages of packing, clothing rolled up in experimental ways, and stacks of clothes waiting to find a home. 
I was doing fine until I found out that the maximum weight for each suitcase is only 30lbs. Good thing diapers are light . . .