PS

For all those worried about Calvin and his self esteem — don’t be concerned. He’s fine. His teacher couldn’t be nicer. (From looking at the work samples Calvin was turning in, he’s much nicer and more understanding than I would be). See, in the background of this picture he’s yawning his way through his flashcards. Not embarrassed at all.

Part of the issue is he isn’t confident with his math facts (and has always been that way) so when they are doing work in class he takes WAY longer to do it than anyone else. Thus, the multiplication flashcard suggestion to help him pick up speed. Hopefully increased speed will equal increased confidence and he’ll leave behind that deer in headlights look when presented a problem to solve.

The picture of him with his head in his hands and Josh mid-eyeroll was CLASSIC Calvin and pretty much summed up what math has looked like at our house for the past 6 years. If something doesn’t come easily to him he gets frustrated and gives up instead of trying to figure it out. He’d rather avoid than fight. This meeting was more of a “we’re going to make sure you keep fighting” coaching session.

So don’t worry that his confidence has been bruised or anything — he still thinks he’s plenty awesome at lots of things (whether he is or not). We’re hoping that someday he’ll be able to say that he’s awesome at problem solving, attention to detail and seeing something through to completion. It’s not about the math, but the man we’re hoping he will become. 

Happy Meals

Caleb was invited to a classmate’s birthday party. He was so excited to find that the party was taking place at his favorite restaurant, “the yellow M.” We arrived to find a McDonald’s packed with 30 screaming 1st and 2nd grade little girls.

She wanted to be one of the dancing, balloon waving partiers too, but settled for an ice cream cone instead.

She’s clapping along with Lady Gaga’s “Poker Face.” 

Caleb has always been a ladies man. I think there were 2 or 3 other boys at the party, but he was surrounded by girls all night. He has two other birthday parties coming up that are all-girl parties, plus him. They just really seem to like him.

Calvin was the lucky beneficiary of a parent/teacher conference right before we went to the party. Josh is holding the teacher recommended flash cards. At least Calvin has the same problems with math at school as he had with me teaching him at home so I can file that one under: Not My Fault

oddities

While shopping for school supplies. The perfect notebook . . . if your name is Jean.

“Dark Temptation” chocolate Axe body spray . . .Yum?

What makes a winter funny? 

“alone” could work. “alive” might work. “a flirt” doesn’t quite roll off your tongue the same way . . .

I don’t know who or what “6 ILSI” is, but the designer of this little girl’s shirt isn’t very happy with them. But at least they’re saying it with style!

The past few days I’ve been running around almost non-stop. Thus, the gap with no new posts. Friday afternoon we went out to lunch after church and then after the baby’s nap, Camille and I drove Calvin out to play paintball with friends from school. It’s about 30 minutes away from our house and no one had been there before and we didn’t have an address to put in the GPS. So my wonderful, directionally gifted husband looked on Google Earth and found the general area where it was supposed to be, zoomed in close and took his best guess at which patch of land might be a paintball place and put those coordinates in the GPS for me. He didn’t take Calvin himself because he works with the youth group on Friday nights (he’s been even busier than I’ve been lately).

So the 3 of us bravely set out into the great unknown to find this paintball place. I was a little nervous about finding it — positive I would be driving around in circles. As we approached the end of our route the voice said, “In .2 miles turn left into destination” and we started looking around for signs of paintball. And then we spotted it: Hallelujah! As we turned into the parking lot, we were escorted by these words, “arriving at your destination.” No joke. He had mapped the exact coordinates — even down to the correct driveway.

From there I was supposed to go to the mall and kill time with Camille for a few hours. Easy, right? Somehow I managed to pick the wrong shopping center from the list in the GPS so it took me way the heck out somewhere that I had never been before and eventually I knew I wasn’t going the right way, but by that time I decided to just go with it. Then I pulled up and it looked sort of like the middle eastern version of Eastmont mall and all the guys on the street were staring at the white girl (see? totally Eastmont!) so I decided to pick a new destination. Lesson learned: GPSs aren’t idiot-proof.

Yesterday was another day of running around. In the morning was the fabric store and the grocery store. Then I had to race off to have lunch with the boys at school. They invited me to eat with them and it sounds all nice and sweet until you understand that Saturdays are Dairy Queen days, but the Elementary School students can’t buy ice cream. It’s only for the MS/HS students/teachers/staff/parents . . . ah ha! Yep, they just use me for ice cream.

Then home to work on sewing some costumes for the Fall Festival on Wednesday (big Halloween party). Carter is dressing up as Dread Pirate Roberts (Princess Bride). He wanted to be a “bandit,” but what he described as a bandit “black fabric over my face” sounded like a Ninja to me. He kept insisting “it’s a pirate, but on land” so we found a compromise with Dread Pirate Roberts.

Caleb is going to be a Tae Kwon Do black belt, which means I only had to sew the belt. However he came home from school wanting to be a werewolf or a vampire even though I had already finished his belt. He wasn’t happy when I told him that he couldn’t change his costume and while I was cleaning the kitchen he found the black fabric that I purchased for DPR and decided he could make himself a vampire costume. With my scissors.

In between lunch and Project Runway: Halloween Episode, Josh and I headed back to school to watch the Elementary School talent show. None of the boys were in it, but they wanted us to come watch it with them. Of course they didn’t sit with us, or hardly talk to us, but Josh and I drank cappuccinos and watched the show so it was almost like a date. Except for the squirming toddler on our laps.

Today is easy until after school. Then we have a parent conference with one of Calvin’s teachers, the boys have after-school activities of watercolor (Carter) and gardening (Caleb) and then we have to run Caleb to a birthday party. Which reminds me that I have to run out and buy a birthday present now, because the stores all close between 1 and 4 or 5 around here. Not for anything special — it’s just a daily “siesta.” Open in the morning, open late at night, closed all afternoon. It’s already 11 so I need to hurry before they close!

My little Omanis

Omani traditional dress for men is the dishdasha (the white robe) and the kuma (the hat). If you’re an Omani man, that’s what you wear. Everywhere. To dress it up (suit and tie equivalent) there is a scarf that is wrapped around the head and worn over the kuma. To dress it up even further (tuxedo equivalent) there is an overcoat type layer that is worn over the robe. They are sharp looking and perfect for the climate here.

Well, my little dudes wanted dishdashas of their own, so we had them measured for them on our most recent trip to the sook. They put them on right away and had people smiling at them right and left on our way out.

We even had someone stop us and ask to take a picture of the blonde boys in dishdashas. 

They find them so comfortable that they even wore them to play handball outside and then didn’t want to take them off before going to bed. Now they want to know when I’m going to get an abaya . . .