Today is the first day of Spring Break — happy day. I slept until 9, stocked up on groceries with Carter and Camille and had nothing else on the schedule. Very nice. Way better than 5:30 drives to soccer practice and a to-do list a mile long.
 |
Yes, I picked this photo with his underwear hanging out on purpose. The boy loves his skinny jeans. |
Yesterday we took Calvin to the airport for his spring break trip to Uganda. I can’t remember if I’ve mentioned it here before (between this blog, Facebook, email, iMessage and What’s App? I’m bound to be repeating myself somewhere), but Calvin was invited to go on a mission trip with our friends from Oman. The group is going to go visit and work at several orphanages, including the one that was started in memory of our friends, Michelle and Julia Hoffman, who were killed in 2012.
This link talks about the 3 children’s homes they will be visiting (though the Michelle and Julia home info should be updated to include that the home is finished, and children have moved in as of November 2013)
children’s homes
And this link (middle of the page) lists the team members for Calvin’s trip and describes why this is a significant visit for them.
April team trip
We’ve had several sandstorms lately (which isn’t helping to get rid of my cough) and makes the skies gray and hazy for days at a time.
I’m so proud of his excitement, enthusiasm, and sense of adventure. He’s come a long way from the boy who was afraid that I would forget to pick him up from Sunday School class.
Funny enough, him leaving highlights the odd schism in my brain. I had not a moment of fear, nervousness, butterflies, anxiety, whatever you want to call it about my baby flying off to a foreign country on his own. I realized this morning that I didn’t even look at a map to see where Uganda is or how far away it is or read up on any potential travel dangers or any of the things that I would feel compelled to do if it were me traveling there. I have every confidence in other people’s abilities and only doubt my own, I guess. That topic would make for several interesting hours with a therapist . . .
I’m sure it helps that he’s traveling with friends who are like family and I know he’s in good company, but it made me feel like a bad mom when so many people said things like “good for you for letting him go” and “this must be so hard for you” when it actually wasn’t. (I know I’m not a bad mom and I don’t need reassurances to the contrary, but their perceived reality and my actual one caused me to stop for a second and say, “How should I be feeling? Oh well, this is me. Carry on.”)
Since he left, he’s been texting me various updates like his arrival in Oman (yay for navigating Passport Control and getting his visa on his own), departure from their layover in Doha (he said they were exhausted from their middle of the night flight) and arrival in Uganda (about to board a bus for a 3+ hour drive to their first destination. Fabulous mother that I am, I’m not sure where the email is that lists his itinerary so I’m not exactly sure where he’s going today. Good grief).
Later in the day we were invited to swim at a going away get-together with some of the kids’ friends. Tis the season for goodbyes as people start leaving for their next duty stations.
After a very hazy day, that got progressively darker and darker, the sky opened up and huge drops started falling. We were pretty well soaked in less than 30 seconds. (I was not swimming. It’s still way too cold for me).
Since rain is wet and pool water is wet, it didn’t interfere with swimming and fun until the thunder and lightening started. This is the craziest spring weather we’ve ever had — it’s raining in April!?
I still love rain. Not sick of it yet.
Camille put herself to bed with the dog. It worked great until the dog got up in the middle of the night to stretch his legs and then she started yelling for him to come back.
The video from the boys’ weekend camp. You can spot Calvin and Carter in there a few times, but it’s not easy. The one place where Calvin is most prominent is when he’s lying down with his underwear on full display, just like in the top picture. (I don’t really care, but we joke about it.)