ski school

I guess it’s a been a pretty busy vacation since I haven’t had time to write about it. Lots of thoughts, but not a lot of energy to share them from all the walking and adventuring we’ve been doing. (I think Josh estimated that we walked 60 miles the week we were in Budapest — average of 8 miles/day, one day was 12 miles.)

Today was our first day of skiing and it couldn’t have gone any better. The three boys were excited, Camille and I were not as excited. She’s been saying for months that she’s nervous about skiing and yesterday when we arrived she was in tears at registration. Literally crying about it. I was ready to bail for the both of us because I was fine with the idea of skiing, but since Europe has been having an extra warm winter, there’s no snow on the bottom of the mountain so all the skiing is taking place way UP, UP, UP and requires a gondola ride to get to the snow.

I was measuring the tradeoff between easy mornings, sleeping in and lazing around the hotel OR being put in a tiny swinging box suspended by a wire and it seemed like an easy decision — I’ll “sacrifice” and not ski myself so Camille can stay home. Besides, she’s only 5. Why would I be a mean mom and make her go to ski school all day with strangers when she’s petrified?

I’m pretty sure that Josh could see through my rationalizing because he talked Camille into trying it for at least the first day. Oh Lord, I’m going to have to get into one of those boxes. And then get back in another one to get off the mountain.

Funny enough, or maybe not if you know her, as soon as she found out that she got special gear to wear she became a lot more excited about skiing and all her nervousness vanished. Not content with her skis, boots and helmet, she wanted pink goggles. I told her if she did the first day of ski school like a big girl, I would get her goggles. 

Also excited about his snowboard for the week. He claims he’s going to shred the mountain. He’s a big talker and full of confidence. 

The next morning we dropped her off for ski school — the 5 to 7 year olds have a special room where they color and watch movies while they wait for everyone to arrive, then they build snowmen and have snowball fights before going to ski. She was a little tentative, but not nervous. 

If she can do it, so can I! I was determined to not be nervous about riding up the mountain so I chatted with my other Adult Beginner skiers in my group and pretended I was somewhere else. Easy peasy. It moved pretty fast so I as least could be content that it would be over as soon as possible. 

At the top this adorable German mom had a toddler with a sled and a baby in this moses basket sled. She had a vest and straps so she could tow the baby around the mountain. 

The runs themselves had plenty of snow, but in-between the slopes was grass and dirt peeking through. It’s all man-made, but there’s enough of it. The nice part is because it’s so warm we only had to wear a shell and I didn’t need gloves until after lunch. The ski instructors joked that we were getting spring skiing in December. 

On the beginner hill going up the tow rope. I was in a class with 7 other adult beginning skiers. Josh, Calvin and Carter were all together learning to snowboard, and Caleb was in the youth skiing class. At the end of the day, everyone had had a great time and was happy to go back tomorrow. 

Plenty of snow at the top of the beginner hill. 

Josh in the neon helmet, working on his turns. It was fun to be in different groups, but to be able to see each other on the hill — as I zoomed past the snowboarders all grouped together on their butts halfway down over and over again. I asked Josh why their class stood around in groups and tried to crash into each other, but I guess they weren’t supposed to do the crashing part. Snowboarding is tough on day 1. 

Carter, not quite carving yet . . . 

We picked Camille up at the end of ski school and she was anxious to put her skis back on and show me that she could ski down the hill by herself. I was impressed she could put her skis on by herself! Those ski instructors are worth every penny. 
Showing off her skills. Caleb is in the blue jacket and comes down the hill first, then Camille is the pink bomb that I’m following. She earned her goggles. 

#selfiesof6arehard

On our way back down the mountain. The gondola isn’t so scary anymore. 

Back to the lodge to change and store our gear for tomorrow 

We did a quick change at the hotel and then headed into town for dinner. We had plans to meet Josh’s friend who is in the German military who lives in Garmisch — they went to school together in Monterey. 

This town is adorable on any given day, but lit up for Christmas? It’s like a scene out of a movie. 

We met up with Josh’s friend and family at the Christmas Market — drank hot wine, ate melted cheese on bread, 

and of course Germany is where you get the biggest and best Bratwurst. 
We headed back to the hotel early and sent everyone to bed so we’re all rested for another day on the mountain tomorrow. 

A King Midas kind of day

It’s almost impossible to top Day One in Budapest, but there’s a lot left on my list to see and do. Since it’s another overcast day we decided to stay on this side of the Danube river and save the views of Buda for tomorrow. This place used to be two cities: Buda, the hills on one side of the river and Pest, the flatlands on the opposite bank, until they joined back in 18 hundred and something or other to form Budapest (pronounced “Pesht”).

We slept in again — the sun isn’t rising until about 7:30. Perfect for a relaxing vacation and such a nice break from home where the sun rises at 6 am even on the short days of December. Thank God for Josh who has been making breakfast for everyone before I’ve even opened my eyes.

After breakfast we headed out to the large market right around the corner from our house. Gorgeous displays of vegetables, cheeses and meats and magnets, potholders, gloves, and t-shirts that say things like “Communism is a party,” and any other tchotchkes you can think of branded with “Budapest” or “Hungry for Hungary.”

Since I was having second thoughts about my lack of layers, we stopped back by the house where chaos ensued — we are staying in an apartment with a code for the front door and of course everyone fights over who gets to input the stupid code. I don’t even know the code myself since one of the kids has done it every time since we’ve arrived. I’ll be locked out in the cold if they ever aren’t with me. Anyway, tears and fighting over the dumb code and threats to leave them at the apartment because they are ruining my vacation happened, but we finally got things worked out and instituted a ban on two particular children not being allowed to have contact with each other for the rest of the day.

Yay for family time!

We set out again for the metro and on our way to our first stop Josh made a new friend. A guy was promoting tours and Josh asked him where he was from because he could hear that he spoke English with an Arabic accent. He was from Tunisia and then he and Josh chatted in Arabic on the street corner until Josh could pull away.

We went to St. Stephen’s church, known for having a mummified hand of St. Stephen that sounded a lot more interesting than it was in real life. The church was huge and beautiful and ornate, all red marble and gold, but a bit strange because the main statue/sculpture up front was Stephen himself (not Stephen from the Bible, a different one) and all the areas to pay tribute to Jesus were off on the sides.

Anyway, the best part of the church was our hike to the top — round and round and round up a million steps and then coming out on the turret that surrounds the main dome, looking out over the roofs of Budapest. Amazing views, even through the mist.

It reminds me of Mary Poppins and the chimney sweeps . . . 
the Parliament building
They want to go on “the eye” (big freaky ferris wheel in the background). I’ll be passing on that one.
 
One of the Christmas Markets in the square below — with a blue Christmas tree and an ice skating rink in the center. 
After descending the tower we explored the market in front of the church. Lots of booths with handmade crafts and souvenirs and hot wine was sold in every other stall. 
Hey, a nativity scene! It’s been a while since we’ve seen one of these. 
Smoking fresh salmon over hot coals
Warming up with hot tea and mulled wine

After a short break we headed over to the Parliament building. Yes, it was a hike, but I wanted to see the river so we walked down toward the water and the Chain Bridge. Caleb had to stop and see if the lions really were missing their tongues (from Hannah’s Cold Winter — they are!) and then we walked down the river to the HUGE Parliament building.

Josh got tickets and we had about an hour so we went around the corner to grab lunch at a cozy cafe.

The tour lasted about 45 minutes and it was gold, more gold, long hallways, gold ceilings . . . lots of gold. All the gold that is overhead and out of reach is actually gold — the bits that are down low are paint.

My camera never captures the sparkle nor the brightness of these interiors, but I keep trying. 
The brass fixture at the bottom is a cigar holder so back when they used to be able to smoke inside, peeps could leave their cigars burning outside the meeting room while they went in to vote. 
The voting room — students were in session doing a mock government exercise. 
Right on the Danube. What a beautiful place to work. 

Since we were on an opulent roll, we decided to walk over to the opera house to see if there were any tickets left for the Nutcracker. They’ve been sold out for months, but I wanted to see if anyone had canceled and turned some in to be resold.

No such luck. But the building itself is beautiful, gold leafed, and worth a visit. No more tours for us today though. Too tired.

We opted to walk up the street to the Alexandra bookstore and cafe to rest our feet. Hot chocolates and cappuccinos for everyone with live piano music and gold painted mirrors and ceilings. super fancy. If it seems that we are drinking our way through Budapest, that’s because we are. If we’re not stopping for coffee, it’s to fill our cups with some hot wine. It’s freezing here.

Not your neighborhood Barnes & Noble . . . 
Chili, mint and dark hot chocolate. All great choices. (I had to taste them all)

We headed home to warm up and grab dinner. We tried to go to one restaurant on our street, but it was booked with a party so Bob pointed out a pub a few doors down that looked interesting. We went in and had some comfort food — goulash, pickles, red wine and sweet crepes for dessert. 

Pickles!

All warmed up from the inside out and home to bed.
(We walked over 10 miles today!)

Life’s a zoo

Our first full day in Budapest we woke up with a week’s worth of activities, but where to start? We decided it was only fitting to go see the sight that cemented our plants to come to Budapest: the zoo. If it sounds strange that I’d choose a particular city because of a bunch of animals, this was about more than just some four-legged creatures. When I was homeschooling the boys, our curriculum used picture books as the base of learning — drawing lessons in social studies, art, language arts, science and applied math from the setting, characters, and plot of each story. A simple concept that has continued to pay off years later as even my high schooler still remembers the lessons he learned from “simple” children’s books.

As I was deciding where to go for this Christmas trip and browsing websites of various central European locations, checking out their “Top 10 things to do” lists, I came upon a photo of the Budapest zoo that looked vaguely familiar. Then it clicked — one of our school books was based on a story about Budapest during WW2 and the cover of the book was a drawing of the zoo entrance. It was meant to be. We were going to go to Budapest to visit Hannah ourselves.

So we added some extra layers (after feeling the chill the night before, we had learned our lesson) and bought a 24 hour group travel pass and headed out on the metro toward City Park and the zoo. 

One of the reasons I like to stay in a place longer than 2 or 3 days is because we get more efficient as time goes on. The first day we might spend 10 minutes figuring out which direction and which platform we need, but by day 3 even Camille knows to turn left at the bottom of the escalator to get to track 3. 

Calvin’s station: Caleb changing it to a ‘C’ instead of a K

We got off a stop before the zoo so we could walk through Heroes’ Square which is important for some reason, but like I said in a previous post, if it didn’t stick in my head during the research process, it’s just a place to see and experience and enjoy for its beauty. It’s a huge square with a lot of statues and it reminds me of the square near our apartment in Paris — guys on horses, weathered to a pale green Lady Liberty color.

We continued through the square and over the bridge into the park and ICE SKATING! 
This is magical. We are coming back, but first to see Hannah. 

We arrived at the zoo, I handed Carter the map and he brought us straight to the Hippo House. It looks just like the illustrations from the book. The story takes place during WWII and is about a special hippo named Hannah that opens her mouth wide for food every time the family goes to visit. (It’s also about how the city worked to save their hippos during a bitter winter of German occupation by feeding them straw mats, slippers and hats that the townspeople collected.)

Outside each of the buildings were bronze figures of the animals that were housed inside — it made it easy for us to figure out which building was which, even without speaking the language!

We walked into the beautiful, ornate, mosque-styled building and there were the hippos. Was it Hannah? One hippo was submerged, but the other heard us call her name and she swam right up to us and opened her mouth! Caleb yelled, “It is Hannah!”

It felt a bit like preserving the myth of Santa Claus as the older boys said, “No, it can’t be. She’d be dead by now.” I said, “I think hippos live a long time, like as long as people. Maybe she was a baby back then and she’s an old lady now . . . ” (I have since learned that although hippos do live a very long time, 40-50 years, they do not live for 70 years. But I’m only telling him if he asks.) Content with that explanation, Caleb glowed that he was face to face with his storybook Hannah as she kept opening and closing her mouth, waiting for food. It was a magical moment.

Domed mosaic ceilings and a chandelier — just like home for us

This article explains a bit more about why this zoo is unique: Budapest Zoo

Going to see the lemurs
The elephant house does not smell very good
Adorable lemurs on the loose
The emus were getting a bit too friendly!
Tropical fish in the Australia house
Free flying bats
I don’t know what this guy is, but he gave us a surprise in the bat house when he cruised by
We can not jump as far as a kangaroo. Not even close.
We loved the rest of the zoo too. Getting close to the lemurs, playful baby orangutans that had us shrieking with laughter as they wrestled and pulled each other’s wild hair, kangaroo playgrounds where we practiced our jumping, and hanging out in an actual bat cave were all unexpected pleasures. 

After exploring the zoo for a few hours it was time for lunch. 
Everyone is bundled up except for one very serious shirtless ping-pong player!

After lunch it was time to hit the baths (ornate yellow building). A must-do when visiting Budapest. One of the reasons the hippos thrived in the Budapest zoo is because the city is built on top of thermal hot springs which provided plenty of warm water for them to wallow in. There are spas all over the city that boast healing hot baths in both outdoor and indoor pools. The water comes out of the ground at about 70C/170F and it is mixed with cooler water to create pools ranging in temperature from around 25 – 40C (from 80 to 100 degrees F — too long overseas and I’m starting to think in Celsius!)

We entered, got our wristbands, then navigated the co-ed locker room. There are individual changing closets and then everyone uses the same locker room to store clothing. It was a bit jarring to see women and men walking around the locker room together wrapped in towels, robes and swimsuits, but that’s just because we rarely even see knees where we come from.

We got everyone changed over — thanking God I didn’t have my babies in cold climates. Wrestling with jackets, tights, layers, gloves and hats all day long is not my idea of a good time. At least at 5 Camille isn’t totally helpless, but it’s still on-off, on-off, hold my gloves, my head is hot my head is cold, where are my gloves, all day long. We entered the baths and went right for the hot pool. At 101 it wasn’t burning hot, just perfectly warm and soothing. We also tried the one across the way that was 95 degrees, but it was a bit chilly, so back to the hot pool for all of us.

My kids are excellent travelers. They may drive me crazy when they are tackling each other in the morning instead of getting dressed or when they swear they didn’t hear me ask them to take the clothes out of the dryer and fold them (both of those were this morning), but take them to a spa with a bunch of adults and they all sat and soaked just like all the 70 year old men. God bless them. Of course I reminded them that this was a spa and not a pool for swimming and splashing before we entered, but they figured it out and played along.

After some time in the indoor pool it was time to brave the cold and head outside to the ultimate hot tub. Steam rising, hot jets flowing from below, a warm fountain spraying from above . . . I think we stayed for an hour, moving from area to area around the giant pool, watching the old men playing chess (on the board that was in the pool), debating whether the statue was of a naked lady nursing a goose or if the goose was just nuzzling her armpit (really, European sculptures are weird), and taking a break from the hot water to do a long, freezing cold lap around the entire perimeter of the 3 pools before hopping back in to warm up again.

We stayed until after the sun set and then headed back inside to change over and take the metro home to grab dinner in our neighborhood.

A buddy that came home from the zoo with us: Queen Hannah, the ring-tailed lemur. 

Near our apartment is Kalvin square, Kalvin metro station, and Calvin bistro!

Our apartment is right around the corner from the Grand Market — it’s like a giant farmer’s market with handicrafts on the second floor (spices, vegetables, cheeses, cured meats, souvenirs, etc). It’s closed for the evening, but lit up for Christmas. We’ll go there tomorrow.

We ended the night with dinner at a pub. There were huge baskets of peanuts on the table and Caleb couldn’t believe his great luck that he could actually drop his shells on the floor. 

Lemonade (fresh juice from crushed citrus and sparkling water)

Goulash and pork for everyone. It’s the Hungarian way. 
All that in one day? No wonder I’m tired! 

Jet lag

I’ve written about this before, but one of the things I hate about traveling from here is that we only shift an hour or two in time zones, but we always have wicked jet lag because we have to travel in the middle of the night. Really, all the flights to go anywhere other than Dubai or Oman leave between midnight and 4am. This flight to Budapest was scheduled to leave at 2:30 am — not enough time to go to sleep before our flight, but enough time to sit around and get sleepy while Camille cried, “Can we go now?” 50 million times starting around 3 in the afternoon. She’s very excited about the trip except for the skiing part.

Meels chatting with Josie before we head out — probably showing off her toenail polish. Josie stays at our house whenever we travel and takes care of the pets. She makes our lives so much easier!
Caleb crashed before we’d even left the house. We’re in for a long night . . . 
Yes, we get Christmas trees in Bahrain! They are in all the public spaces. 

 We headed over around 11:30pm so we could get checked in and try to rest in the airport lounge. I figure because of the way the flight is broken up into 4 hours and 2 hours (with an hour layover in the middle) no one is probably going to get more than an hour or 2 of sleep all night.

Scratch that. No one is going to be sleeping after that coffee shake. The plan is to arrive in Budapest at 8:30 am, hang on as long as the adrenaline lasts and then will either succumb to a nap or crash early. It’s the way our trips always go. 

I was just drifting off when this group of women crashed in our lounge area — they weren’t going on our flight, they were super loud and there were 4 of them with a 2 year old boy that kept screaming and trying to hit his mama. They finally got a phone call and went rushing off. Because of the holidays it seemed that there were a lot more Saudi travelers than usual at our airport. Lucky Calvin slept through it all. 

Why do we have all this time to sleep at the airport? Because our flight was delayed. No one was telling us why, just the sign listed a 10 minute delay that was never updated beyond that even after that time had come and gone. I was getting edgy, thinking that there must be a mechanical issue and I was going to be the test bunny after the repair. But after about an hour Josh was looking out the window at our plane (because it had been at the gate the entire time) and saw them moving a body out through one of the front doors of the plane and into a truck. So maybe someone died on the previous flight? Not that I’m happy that someone died, but I was relieved that all was fine with the plane. Sorry, dead guy. 
A few minutes later they rushed us onto the plane like cattle, since we were over an hour late, and we took off. A few minutes in there was an announcement over the loudspeaker looking for any medical personnel, since someone was having an emergency on board. For a split-second I thought I might be trapped on a killer plane, like something from a Stephen King novel, but then it turned out to be nothing and we continued on. Our pilot tried to make up the time lost, but it wasn’t enough for us to make our connection. We landed just as our flight to Budapest was taking off. Oh well. More hours to spend in an airport.

We did get a meal comped by the airline to feed us while we waited. Whoppers and fries for breakfast! Why not? Our body clocks are all fouled up anyway.

Several hours later, up up and away to Budapest! This two hour fight was a smooth one except for the very end when the pilot was coming in for a landing and then changed his mind and shot back up into the sky. He came on over the loudspeaker and said there had been a sudden change in weather so he was going to try again for “a good landing.” Yes, yes. I’d definitely prefer that. As we were looking out the window and kept getting lower and lower, I was waiting to break through the clouds to see the ground. And then I saw the lines on the runway about 15 feet below and we touched down before I could even blink. Zero visibility on that one. Nice job, pilot.

All our luggage arrived along with us and we grabbed a cab to the apartment. 

Our first views of Budapest. Lots of old buildings — it reminds me of Paris.

Our apartment is perfect. Under $1000 for 7 nights in a 3 bedroom 2 bathroom place right in the center of town.

Our bedroom. Chocolates on the pillows and it’s decorated for Christmas! 

After dropping our luggage we added a few layers and went out to explore our neighborhood before it got dark (It’s 3pm, but it gets dark around 4:30). 

There’s a yarn store around the corner — look at the name on the ball of yarn in the window! I’ll have to go buy some. It was meant to be. 

The sign on the gun shop next to the yarn store. Maybe they can shop while I shop . . .

Walking up the main pedestrian street to the Christmas Market

Admiring the beautiful architecture 

Getting closer, getting crowded

Christmas tree on the square

Merry Christmas 2015

And Happy Birthday to me. The end of my birthday is turning out WAY BETTER than the beginning of the day. 

Stopping for mulled wine, of course.

All the booths lining the square selling everything from leather goods, to sweets, to pottery . . .

Dinner: sausages, sauerkraut, stuffed cabbage (my favorite), goulash in the bread bowl and pork with vegetables. 

Topping up our mugs with lemon tea and some other version of hot grog for the walk home.

Pitch dark and it’s not even 5pm. We walked home and warmed up (gotta add extra layers and make sure to wear gloves from now on!) and I crawled in bed to relax. I was out by 5 and slept all night until 8:30 the next morning. I guess the rest of the family went out to the grocery store and explored a little more while I was in la la land, but they were all asleep by 8. Jet lag strikes again! 

Winter shopping

With Christmas travels coming up, all our extra funds have been funneled to our vacation account. But I have a weakness for carpets. When a friend hosted a rug flop I should have known I’d come home with something. 
Like this gorgeous, bold, Caucasian tribal. The name doesn’t mean it was made by a group of white people, but that it comes from the Caucus region — from one of those countries north of Turkey and Iran and south of Russia (I had to wikipedia that).

And as long as we were taking one home, why not throw in a second? It’s not like I have any other red carpets. (Lie: I have 4 other red carpets, not counting the new one above. Or 5 if I count the one that I forgot to count.) Can you have too many red carpets? I’ll let you know if I get there. But they are so beautiful and made of wool and durable and only about $200 each. Thank God I fall in love with the cheap ones. I mean, I fall in love with the expensive ones too, but usually restraint wins out. If we find out in a few months that we are leaving the Middle East, I may have to hoard a few more “just in case” carpets before we depart because I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to bring myself to buy a machine made carpet ever again. 

This Saturday was the opening weekend for our winter Farmer’s Market that runs from December through April. I love this place with all the Bahraini families shopping and picnicking. 
Josh and I got to spend the morning with Caleb while the others stayed home. 

Gorgeous vegetables, all grown on our island. It’s amazing that they can pull this produce out of our desert ground. There used to be natural freshwater springs that ran under Bahrain and in parts of the ocean around the island — Bahrain means “two seas,” where the salty ocean and the fresh water meet, but in the process of making our island bigger and reclaiming land, the sweet water springs have been disrupted. I’m not sure how many of them are left. 

We stopped and got breakfast. This new stand is called The Waffle House, but it’s nothing like what you’d get in the US. They were serving American-style waffles with Middle Eastern breakfast items on top. I love this idea. 

One of my favorite Arabic breakfast dishes is balaleet — mildly sweet, cardamom spiced noodles. Caleb’s waffle was topped with sweet noodles and sprinkled with ground pistachios. 

The other waffle we got (not pictured) was topped with a mixture of seasoned ground beef, potatoes, and peas, topped with tahini (sesame) sauce. The mildly sweet waffle was a perfect complement to the savory meat and potatoes. 

We stopped by the local honey vendor and picked up some honey and the guy gave Bob his own tiny jar. 

These paper thin crepes are made by spreading a see-through layer of dough on a hot stone and then scraping it off with a paint-scraper-like tool. As she scrapes it off, she rolls it up and it’s a crispy, melt in your mouth wafer. A perfect Saturday morning snack.