Hotel California

We’ve arrived in one of my favorite places on earth. Not because it’s where I grew up, but because Aptos/Santa Cruz, CA is beautiful, peaceful and full of everything that the Middle East is lacking: redwood trees, clear skies and salty air. And berries — all the berries.

I thought I had this jet lag thing beaten — I slept from 7 until 5:30 the first night and last night I managed to stay awake until 10. But alas, children. My girlie woke me up at 4am with a bad dream and then I was wide awake and tired. Kids are sand in the motor of a finely oiled machine.

So I ate strawberries, blueberries, and raspberries in the dark for breakfast. My mom, bless her, knew that’s exactly what we’d be craving and stocked the fridge with stacks of berry flats.

I eat a year’s worth of berries in 7 weeks . . .
Between my berry fix and my Calvin fix, I’m all set!

It’s 7 am and I can hear the chickens cackling over their newly laid eggs. I love waking up to that sound. And that’s not sarcasm. Their coop is outside my bedroom window and the pride I hear in their frantic clucking, announcing the completion of their new creation, always makes me smile.

What else . . . Oh, my news! I can finally stop vagueblogging and announce that Josh has a new job! (Yes, another one.) With a new company. (That I don’t think I’ll name here, but feel free to message me if you want to know). Or if you want to play detective, you can google top Aerospace companies and it shows up on most of those lists. Like this one: Josh’s new job. Hint: he’s not working for the Russians.

Things were fine with his current company, but this offer came to him, at the right time, and was exactly what he was looking for. This past year he has been working from home, but he misses being part of a team (really?!) and is excited to be back in an office setting. (Sounds like crazy talk to me.)

So he signed the new contract the day we left, sent in his resignation letter as the kids and I were flying over the North Pole, and now he’s gearing up to go through the new hire process all over again, exactly a year later. It’s definitely not what we expected, but it’s good.

Waiting, waiting

Change is coming, but we are in the middle of a game of Red Light, Green Light. Just frozen in place, waiting for the green light, then trying to race as far forward as we can before having to stop short again.

Two days ago I was afraid this limbo was going to stretch into July, leaving us stranded right in the middle between the start and the finish line, but last night we got the green light again and are hoping to keep moving forward through the end of this week.

Then I can tell you exactly what I’m talking about. Gracious. It feels a little like Groundhog Day around here. June 2019 is a lot of same, same as June of 2018. Except we don’t have to move and there is no one named Toby making my life extra stressful this time around.

Things are good and we are at peace, just patiently and impatiently waiting for pieces of this puzzle to fit into place. What day is it today? Tuesday? In 5 days I leave for the US with the kids for summer break. I’m excited to go and have a vacation and see family, but at the same time it would be nice to finally feel settled here. It’s been a very unpredictable year.

It feels like we’re halfway to normal as things are going great with church and it feels like being part of a family. That’s been the best thing to happen over the past 6 months. I’m thankful that we landed with this group of people who are looking to serve God in any way possible and that we get to be part of that. As for the other half: Tick, tock. Tick, tock . . .

Lazy days in Thailand

A pool, a dock, a football, and hours of fun. These boys flung themselves off the dock into the path of the football over and over and over and over again.

Got it!
Painful fun? Not a sunburn . . .
My kind of fun

We relaxed, I read books, and the kids swam and played together all day.

It’s easy to see why we came back to the same spot. Completely peaceful, the house to ourselves, and great food.

Samui Ridgeway (my photo)

I don’t know if we’ll ever get to go back, since there’s a lot of the world to still explore, but I’m leaving it on the list.

Family Fun

Over the past few years our family has had the joy of traveling with the Macfadyen and Shalley families: Uganda, Atlantis and Motiongate (Dubai), Seychelles, desert camping, Muscat, Thailand (2xs), and more. Basically when the Macharleys get together, we have fun.

This Thailand trip was planned a year ago, in anticipation of getting in one more adventure together before another High School graduate leaves for the other side of the world. We keep losing them one by one, but thankfully the Shalleys are still adding to the numbers on their end. On this trip we gathered everyone from around the globe and 17 of us met up at “Bob’s house” for vacation (not my Bob, but the one who owns the house).

Family meals
boat tour
always eating Pad Thai
Camille jet skiing with her beloved Mer
Elephant care extravaganza
Eating a coconut tree (a sprout from inside a coconut)
Carter the Manny
with Patton on the boat

As the Macfadyens are leaving Oman this week (after 14 years!), we know that our extended family tribe will never be the same, but it could get even better. They are moving to Bogata, Columbia and I’m hoping we can Macharley together in South America. Maybe hike Machu Picchu with the little ones on our backs?

Love you . . .