Bahraini Berries

First an update on Calvin. He was pretty sick today (we texted back and forth a few times — thank God for modern technology), but based on his symptoms, I’m pretty sure it’s a reaction to his malaria medication (nausea, vomiting and dizziness). Poor kid. He was feeling useless and discouraged because he wasn’t able to do the work that he was there to do (help build a wall and play with the kids). After being concerned about him all day I was happy to see this update from him tonight on Facebook:

Yesterday went great. We were able to meet the kids that we sponsor at the Hoffman home, and we got to play with them, as well as help them build a brick wall. Today… Not so well. I woke up and threw up 3 times, and took a Motrin, and was able to go to the Hoffman home, where I slept in one of the 2 guest rooms. At lunch, I felt well enough to go and eat just a little food. By about 4 O’clock, I was able to go outside and play around with them a little. We were able to teach them how to play baseball, and football. Even though none if them knew how to play either sport, they picked up really fast. Now I’m about to go eat dinner, and I feel almost normal. (Except for my enormous cough that I’ve had for about a month.) — feeling better.

I’m happy that he seems to be improving, but I think I’m going to recommend he take his malaria medicine with dinner tomorrow so if makes him feel nauseous, at least he can sleep it off. 

In between text messages, we were on a berry hunt at the farmer’s market today.

but we were sidetracked by the petting zoo.

For 200 fils/kid (about 50 cents) they could go inside the enclosure with a fistful of weeds and feed the chickens, goats, ducks and other small birds. 

I have more great photos to share from the market (and our berries!), but it’s getting late and the internet is running slow tonight. I’ll try again tomorrow. Hopefully by then, I’ll have another good update from Calvin!

Prayer Request

Calvin messaged me tonight from Uganda:

Please pray that he feels better in the morning and that his sickness doesn’t interfere with his ability to work with the team and help out. Thank you!!

Spring Break

Today is the first day of Spring Break — happy day. I slept until 9, stocked up on groceries with Carter and Camille and had nothing else on the schedule. Very nice. Way better than 5:30 drives to soccer practice and a to-do list a mile long. 
Yes, I picked this photo with his underwear hanging out on purpose. The boy loves his skinny jeans. 
Yesterday we took Calvin to the airport for his spring break trip to Uganda. I can’t remember if I’ve mentioned it here before (between this blog, Facebook, email, iMessage and What’s App? I’m bound to be repeating myself somewhere), but Calvin was invited to go on a mission trip with our friends from Oman. The group is going to go visit and work at several orphanages, including the one that was started in memory of our friends, Michelle and Julia Hoffman, who were killed in 2012. 
This link talks about the 3 children’s homes they will be visiting (though the Michelle and Julia home info should be updated to include that the home is finished, and children have moved in as of November 2013) children’s homes
And this link (middle of the page) lists the team members for Calvin’s trip and describes why this is a significant visit for them. April team trip

We’ve had several sandstorms lately (which isn’t helping to get rid of my cough) and makes the skies gray and hazy for days at a time. 

I’m so proud of his excitement, enthusiasm, and sense of adventure. He’s come a long way from the boy who was afraid that I would forget to pick him up from Sunday School class. 
Funny enough, him leaving highlights the odd schism in my brain. I had not a moment of fear, nervousness, butterflies, anxiety, whatever you want to call it about my baby flying off to a foreign country on his own. I realized this morning that I didn’t even look at a map to see where Uganda is or how far away it is or read up on any potential travel dangers or any of the things that I would feel compelled to do if it were me traveling there. I have every confidence in other people’s abilities and only doubt my own, I guess. That topic would make for several interesting hours with a therapist . . . 
I’m sure it helps that he’s traveling with friends who are like family and I know he’s in good company, but it made me feel like a bad mom when so many people said things like “good for you for letting him go” and “this must be so hard for you” when it actually wasn’t. (I know I’m not a bad mom and I don’t need reassurances to the contrary, but their perceived reality and my actual one caused me to stop for a second and say, “How should I be feeling? Oh well, this is me. Carry on.”)

Since he left, he’s been texting me various updates like his arrival in Oman (yay for navigating Passport Control and getting his visa on his own), departure from their layover in Doha (he said they were exhausted from their middle of the night flight) and arrival in Uganda (about to board a bus for a 3+ hour drive to their first destination. Fabulous mother that I am, I’m not sure where the email is that lists his itinerary so I’m not exactly sure where he’s going today. Good grief).

Later in the day we were invited to swim at a going away get-together with some of the kids’ friends. Tis the season for goodbyes as people start leaving for their next duty stations. 
After a very hazy day, that got progressively darker and darker, the sky opened up and huge drops started falling. We were pretty well soaked in less than 30 seconds. (I was not swimming. It’s still way too cold for me).

Since rain is wet and pool water is wet, it didn’t interfere with swimming and fun until the thunder and lightening started. This is the craziest spring weather we’ve ever had — it’s raining in April!?

I still love rain. Not sick of it yet. 

Camille put herself to bed with the dog. It worked great until the dog got up in the middle of the night to stretch his legs and then she started yelling for him to come back. 

The video from the boys’ weekend camp. You can spot Calvin and Carter in there a few times, but it’s not easy. The one place where Calvin is most prominent is when he’s lying down with his underwear on full display, just like in the top picture. (I don’t really care, but we joke about it.)

Isa Town Market

I’m still on an “I’m not moving!” high. As others are scrambling to complete paperwork, schedule movers, medically clear people and pets for return to the states, or ask a million and one questions about moving over here, I have nothing to do except cough my way through this next week. And then spring break. Hallelujah!
As people ask questions about moving to Bahrain or moving to Oman, I often give them my blog address and tell them which periods of time to browse in order to get a feel for what things will be like. I realized today I better go back and check those time periods for myself and make sure those posts will actually be helpful to them — that they aren’t just full of my love for Judge Judy and knitting with little to say about transitioning here. So I started with June of 2012 and fell in love all over again. With Oman. 
And then I moved into July 2012 and read about our first days here and the disastrous house hunting and oh gosh, the kids were so little and so cute and I fell in love all over again. With my blog. The lesson is always that something is better than nothing and what I think is nothing today will be priceless to me someday. 
So with that as inspiration, I give you my Isa Town market post:
Some Facebook friends (that I only sort of know in real life — it’s weird living here because we have a pretty tight knit community on Facebook to help out with things like “how much should I pay someone to clean the interior of my car?” to “Quick, the NEX just got in a shipment of cat litter so grab some while it’s still in stock!” to “I found this stuffed animal in the parking lot, whose baby is missing it?” but we don’t all know each other outside of Facebook. Friends, but not, know what I mean?) Anyway, some “friends” posted that they went to the Isa Town market and found some really fun and unique jewelry, furniture, etc and I posted that next time they go, I’d love to join them (goodbye comfort zone!). 
Plans were made and we agreed to all meet outside base and follow each other caravan style. There were 6 cars ahead of me and one behind me — it was quite a trick to make it through all the lights without leaving anyone behind. There may have been a bit of red light running toward the end of the line — but it was that or get lost in the maze of streets in Isa Town. 

The market is a flea market/swap meet type of place. Used good, new goods, spices, fruit and vegetables, semi-permanent garage sale type stalls . . . fascinating. I wasn’t looking for anything in particular this time, but I knew that this was the place to go for anything and everything. 
One of the girls in our group cuts hair and was looking for a stylist’s chair (the kind that swivels and goes up and down). She actually found one here. 

I wasn’t looking for a coat rack, but when I saw these, I caved. I got the dark one in the middle — it’s heavy and taller than I am. $25 was a bargain. It’s perfect for people like me who are too lazy to hang things up properly. I loved the one we had and have been using it since 29 Palms (Thanks Tina!), but it couldn’t handle the excess of sweaters, bags and sports gear that I attempted to hang on it. 

As we wandered, I was looking forward to coming back with Josh and the boys and looking through all these treasures. I love the old style teapots. 

playing with my filters

Places to have cushions made

all the fabric choices

fresh fruit and berries

It had rained the day before and parts of the road were flooded — trying to get across without getting our feet drenched. I settled for one foot dry, one foot wet (also why I wear flip flops everywhere). 

Following the leader

on our way to look at spices and carpets — I’m not kidding when I say you can find everything here. Funny though, some things were great prices (like my coat rack). Other things were greatly overpriced (like a $20 shoe rack that I would have paid $10 at most and a broken glider rocker with no cushion that the guy wanted $75 for). 

Look at this funky carpeted chair! 

Perfect for napping, right? Upon further inspection, we think it’s a prayer chair for those who aren’t able to do the up down thing for prayer time (the carpeted chair acts as a prayer carpet). 

Look at this cinnamon! It’s about the size of my forearm. When I was homeschooling the boys, one of the books we read was called How to Make an Apple Pie and See the World and we learned how cinnamon comes from the bark of a tree. Yep, that’s some serious tree bark. And it smells just like a jar of cinnamon. 
After we finished exploring, we went our separate ways to head home. I tagged the market in my GPS so I’ll be able to find it again on my own next time. 

I know I’ve picked up the driving habits of some of the locals, but I really did have a reason for driving on the shoulder this time. There was a nasty accident and everyone was at a standstill. The only way to get around it was to drive on the shoulder. 
The postscript to this story is sad “carpe diem” reminder. Later that evening, the market went up in flames. The news articles did not have a source for the fire, but 2 years ago the same thing happened due to some faulty wiring. Everything is packed so closely together that once the flames start in one stall, they spread almost instantly — especially when so many of the stalls and walkways are covered with old cloths and rags. 

See the coat racks and the salon chairs? This is where we were shopping just a few hours previous. I’m glad I jumped on the opportunity to go when I did and am hoping they are able to reopen before too long. For their sake and mine. 

soccer

A missing post.
I started loading this video a while back and then forgot to post it after it finished. Camille had a very successful first soccer season. I’m hoping we have lots of games ahead of us.

camille playing “red light, green light” with her team.