capitol living

I read The Hunger Games before they were a thing, before talk of making a movie, before all the JLaw hype. Before Team Peeta vs. Team Gale. When talk of “the reaping” meant you were probably falling asleep in history class, listening to a lecture on farming. It was the first book I ever purchased for my brand new Kindle, a very thoughtful “I’m sorry you were evacuated” present from my father in law. Upon arrival, the enclosed note said we would be able to take all of our books all over the world with us, and not have to leave any behind. True and funny.

I bought the book on a whim because I needed something to read during a long car ride and one of my Facebook friends who has never steered me wrong with books (she told me to read The Help before it was a thing too) mentioned that she had just finished the third book in this trilogy after waiting forever for it to be released. We got in the car, I turned on my Kindle and started reading and at the end of the first chapter I looked up and said to Josh, “I’m going to read this out loud to you while you drive.” And then I started over at the beginning. And read for the next 6 hours.

I probably found it at just the right time in my life, because the story of the oppressed districts rising up against the wealthy Capitol rulers and fighting for freedom hit all of my “wishing I was back in Egypt witnessing history firsthand” buttons and I could feel the struggle, feel the angst, feel the pain of everything getting worse and losing hope that things could be better in the future and this fantasy/futuristic novel felt more authentic than anything I had read in a long time.

Now 3 years later, we’re living in Bahrain and I just took the boys to see the second movie, Catching Fire. My favorite book of the 3, I think. Josh leaned over in the middle of the movie, the scene where Katniss and Peeta are on the train for the tour and they enter District 11 with all the graffiti and police in riot gear and he whispered, “It’s like Bahrain.” And then I realized we live in the Capitol.  My freedom and justice loving self is one of the well-fed ridiculous capitol peeps that is totally oblivious to the suffering going on around them.

We are groomed to be part of the capitol. We are restricted from traveling to the villages/districts, we are told the lies that they are dangerous, that we need to stay in the capitol to be safe. We see a puff of smoke here or there and cops in riot gear if we venture out to the edges of our zone, but for the most part, we are shielded from it all. We buy our $5 cappuccinos and wave off the raggedy car washers because they’re always asking for money and it’s an irritating disruption to our otherwise happy lives. Meanwhile, in the districts, people are living in graffiti covered burned out neighborhoods and every night the molotov cocktails fly and the riot police come in with their beat sticks and rubber bullets and sometimes kids die, but that’s what happens when you fight back against the capitol.

And there is nothing I can do about it.

Recital

This little rocker transforms into a “graceful” ballerina once a week.

Thankfully she has finally stopped crying before and during every class.

This week her class performed all of the exercises they have been working on for parents, siblings and anyone else who happened to wander into the multi-purpose room between 5 and 5:45.

She had us cracking up the entire time.

Josh said Camille’s dancing is more in the style of Mia Michaels than traditional ballet (that one is for you Kris!) 

She looks serious and contemplative about her art, but that’s her “I didn’t take a nap” face. 
I have video, but I also have electrical problems so I can’t upload them today. Something is causing one of the breakers to trip which knocks out all of the electrical outlets on the second floor — taking with it the TV, internet, computer etc. The electrician came over and flipped a few light switches on and off (even though I told him it didn’t affect the lights) and wandered from room to room looking lost until he decided to leave and come back if it happened again. It blew 5 minutes later. I’ll try again tomorrow.

Ah, Oman . . . and Thanksgiving

A few weeks ago Josh went to Oman for work and brought home this present for me:
I miss finding laughs like this all the time. Darn quality control here in Bahrain. 
The closest we get to silly shopping finds is something like this sweater that was clearly a nod to the recent “What the Fox” trend.
We had a great Thanksgiving weekend. Good food, good friends, and extra rest. 
My Thanksgiving present from my photographer friend. We were at her house for dinner and she grabbed her camera and took us all outside for a quick family photo.

She also took this one of our two cuties together

The biggest surprise of the day was how much Caleb helped out in the kitchen (his idea). In this photo, he’s making the gravy.

My undercooked turkey — meat thermometers and Middle Eastern ovens lie. There were parts that were cooked and parts that weren’t, but thankfully I had an emergency smoked turkey so we had enough to feed everyone. (Thanks Mom!) The rest of it went in the crockpot overnight and was turned into turkey Shepherd’s pie the next day.

While I was cooking turkey, mashed potatoes, dressing and gravy, Caleb decided he wanted to make a dessert. I told him that as long as I didn’t have to do anything and he could wait for the oven to be available, he could have at it. He got out my Pioneer Woman cookbook and made French pastry puffs all by himself. (They are similar to muffins that are rolled in butter and cinnamon sugar . . . yum.) And when I say I didn’t help, I mean it. I didn’t pick out the recipe, get out any of the ingredients, or even take them out of the oven. I helped him sound out the word “alternate” in the recipe and that was it. 

A plate full and a mouthful of dessert!
Happy Thanksgiving. 

a fix

The day after I wrote the previous post, I came home to find the remnants chocolate milk and cookies on the kitchen table. 
It’s the dirty needle equivalent. 
It’s been a busy week leading up to Thanksgiving. I’ve thought about writing, but haven’t taken the time to put my thoughts down on paper. I could use prayer that this weekend is a time for us to recharge. I’m worn out.   

Future Crack-Heads of America

I’m probably breaking some important parenting rule when I call my girlie a “junkie,” but there really is no other way to describe it. She is relentless in her pursuit of a sugar fix. She’ll ask for chocolate, ice cream, candy or anything else with a bit of sweetness a million times a day (once I found her hiding under the table having her way with the ketchup bottle) and it doesn’t ever sink in that my answer is never going to be “yes.” (Probably because sometimes it actually is yes — I’m not running a “dry” household and sometimes I want a little chocolate too.)

It’s no use trying to do a detox because she has a willing dealer with an endless supply. Josie is her go-to girl. As soon as I leave the house they skip off to the cold store together and Camille gets loaded up with all of her favorite things: Oreos, tic-tacs, bubble gum (she’ll chew an entire pack in a morning), chocolate milk, and lollipops. The war on drugs has been lost here.

This is how I found her today — the blue smudges on her face and hiding behind the curtain sure signs that she had gotten into something. 

Even though I have told her a bazillion times that they aren’t candy, she couldn’t resist trying the food coloring tablets left over from Easter egg dying. Junkie for sure.